If you Want to Change the World, Love a Woman
by apollosolaris
IF YOU WANT TO CHANGE THE WORLD…
@Apollo Solaris
I AM God’s Divine LOVE in Action I AM God’s Divine WILL and POWER in Action. I AM God’s Divine WISDOM and INTELLIGENCE in ACTION. and I intend to bring PEACE, Love and Light to BALANCE the powers in the world – NOW! I AM APOLLO SOLARIS
APOLLOSOLARIS.COM
love a woman-really love her.
Find the one who calls to your soul, who doesn’t make sense.
Throw away your check list and put your ear to her heart and listen.
Hear the names, the prayers, the songs of every living thing-
every winged one, every furry and scaled one,
every underground and underwater one, every green and flowering one,
every not yet born and dying one…
Hear their melancholy praises back to the One who gave them life.
If you haven’t heard your own name yet, you haven’t listened long enough.
If your eyes aren’t filled with tears, if you aren’t bowing at her feet,
you haven’t ever grieved having almost lost her.
If you want to change the world… love a woman-one woman
beyond yourself, beyond desire and reason,
beyond your male preferences for youth, beauty and variety
and all your superficial concepts of freedom.
We have given ourselves so many choices
we have forgotten that true liberation
comes from standing in the middle of the soul’s fire
and burning through our resistance to Love.
There is only one Goddess.
Look into Her eyes and see-really see
if she is the one to bring the axe to your head.
If not, walk away. Right now.
Don’t waste time “trying.”
Know that your decision has nothing to do with her
because ultimately it’s not with who,
but when we choose to surrender.
If you want to change the world… love a woman.
Love her for life-beyond your fear of death,
beyond your fear of being manipulated
by the Mother inside your head.
Don’t tell her you’re willing to die for her.
Say you’re willing to LIVE with her,
plant trees with her and watch them grow.
Be her hero by telling her how beautiful she is in her vulnerable majesty,
by helping her to remember every day that she IS Goddess
through your adoration and devotion.
If you want to change the world… love a woman
in all her faces, through all her seasons
and she will heal you of your schizophrenia-
your double-mindedness and half-heartedness
which keeps your Spirit and body separate-
which keeps you alone and always looking outside your Self
for something to make your life worth living.
There will always be another woman.
Soon the new shiny one will become the old dull one
and you’ll grow restless again, trading in women like cars,
trading in the Goddess for the latest object of your desire.
Man doesn’t need any more choices.
What man needs is Woman, the Way of the Feminine,
of Patience and Compassion, non-seeking, non-doing,
of breathing in one place and sinking deep intertwining roots
strong enough to hold the Earth together
while she shakes off the cement and steel from her skin.
If you want to change the world… love a woman, just one woman .
Love and protect her as if she is the last holy vessel.
Love her through her fear of abandonment
which she has been holding for all of humanity.
No, the wound is not hers to heal alone.
No, she is not weak in her codependence.
If you want to change the world… love a woman
all the way through
until she believes you,
until her instincts, her visions, her voice, her art, her passion,
her wildness have returned to her-
until she is a force of love more powerful
than all the political media demons who seek to devalue and destroy her.
If you want to change the world,
lay down your causes, your guns and protest signs.
Lay down your inner war, your righteous anger
and love a woman…
beyond all of your striving for greatness,
beyond your tenacious quest for enlightenment.
The holy grail stands before you
if you would only take her in your arms
and let go of searching for something beyond this intimacy.
What if peace is a dream which can only be re-membered
through the heart of Woman?
What if a man’s love for Woman, the Way of the Feminine
is the key to opening Her heart?
If you want to change the world…love a woman
to the depths of your shadow,
to the highest reaches of your Being,
back to the Garden where you first met her,
to the gateway of the rainbow realm
where you walk through together as Light as One,
to the point of no return,
to the ends and the beginning of a new Earth.
~by Lisa Citore~
Apollo Solaris 
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Karen Star @ iN5d – How To Win The Heart Of A Goddess – 6-28-17
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by Karen Star,
Guest writer, In5D.com
http://in5d.com/win-heart-goddess/
Even in today’s age of growing gender equality, the onus is still predominantly on our men to make the first move in relationships and many of you are struggling with this. So, allow me to pass on an important tip to winning the heart of that Goddess you have fallen for – One which will place you way ahead of any other suitors who may be knocking on her door.
As a single, spiritually awakened woman, I don’t get out much in the real life social scene. I’m done with the small talk from men, the awkward chat up lines and most definitely being appraised up and down like a piece of meat. I’m a happy homebody who enjoys her own company, independence and peaceful, drama free lifestyle. However, that’s not to say I wouldn’t welcome a relationship but I’m only willing to renounce my single status for a man who can fearlessly open his heart. Someone who is strong enough to be vulnerable – A modern day warrior who can show me who he is without his walls and armour – I’m looking for a hero
I hang out quite a bit on social media. I love my online vibe tribe. We have a, beautiful, inspiring connection, sharing a passion to lift humanity and the planet. The other topic that gets thrown around is the fact that many of us are single. The men often lamenting about how us women have set our standards way too high and us ladies wondering, where the hell are all the heart connected men hiding?
If my inbox is any indication, I believe the problem here lies in the initial approach that many men have when they decide to reach out to the woman who has flipped their interest. They see a woman they like, maybe it’s her smile, her energy or her passion for life and decide to test the waters. So, they decide to reach out half-heartedly in a nonchalant manner, unwilling to risk rejection and gauge the level of interest by just sticking their big toe in the water.
Maybe they send a casual message just saying, “Hi beautiful” or “Are you single?” or “Can I teach you Tantra?” – I’m laughing because believe me, I’ve heard them all. These introductions lack depth and originality. They are just not to stop the girl of your dreams dead in her tracks and make her go – “Wow, I really feel I want to get to know this guy better.”
If you really want to impress your crush and explore if she’s open to getting to know you better, you’re going to have to dig deeper and give her something special. Oh boy I can hear you saying, more flowers, chocolates, fancy restaurants – Well no actually, that’s definitely not going to win the heart of a woman with any depth, and what I’m suggesting you give her cannot be bought with any credit card or impressive bank balance either. If she’s an awakened woman, you’re just not going impress her with your shiny car, bulging biceps, cheesy words or corny memes.
Right from the start she’s going to want to know if you can fearlessly open your heart…. That’s what she’s looking for in a man.
So be brave and give her something no one else can – Give her a piece of your heart. Give her an insight into a side of you that you don’t show to everyone else. Tell her how you feel about her and mention that you’re nervous but she’s worth taking the risk for. Be authentic and genuine, she’s not interested in flashy showmanship and you only ever going to get one chance to make that vital first impression.
Now doing that takes real guts – Warrior courage…. But she’s never going settle for anything less in a man.
Look at you, you’ve been walking the hard yards on your own spiritual journey. You’ve embraced the lessons from past relationships and grown from the inevitable pain. You know you have something special to offer her. You are unique, no one else can give her what you’ve got – After all that’s what you’re selling right? … Your heart.
And you know what? Despite your best efforts, maybe she’s still won’t reciprocate your same level of interest. But I’ll tell you one thing – You’ll have gained her respect and she’s unlikely to forget you either.
If she’s not interested, don’t see it as rejection, we can’t fall romantically in love with everyone we meet. Just look how strong you are to even allow yourself be vulnerable – Now that shows real strength as a man.
If it doesn’t work out, don’t close the door on your heart, everything is a stepping stone. Gently remind yourself that you’ve managed to wrench open your heart a tiny bit more, ready for when that one special lady who will see you as her true hero, comes along – And she will. because a man who can open his heart is in huge demand with us single goddesses.
You have absolutely nothing to lose and everything to gain.
Fearlessly show her your heart … And just maybe, you will win hers.
About the author: Karen Star is a passionate writer, poet, yogini, mother and vibrational alignment coach. She’s down to Earth with her head in the stars – Clearly from another galaxy. Speaking her truth from her heart, she delights in demystifying the bridge between quantum reality and our human experience, as we ride the highs and lows of the roller coaster through life. She lives in a reality where everything is energy and we are all dancing to the sacred music of the cosmos. Feel free to connect with Karen via her Facebook account.
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OH, THE VOICE OF THE HEART THAT IS NOT UNDERSTOOD BY MAN NOR WOMAN.
Women you do not know man, and man you do not know women. For women are creatures of sentiment and beauty with the flow of feelings that are not linear. And man, you’re not understood with your logic, your work and your occupations of business because that has become your escape. And so, when you’re with women you try to take care of her needs that come from your toils in the soil and yet you do not even look at her heart for you fear her. And women, you feel your power of delight and the energy of your sexual enticements, not respecting the man and his plight of not knowing your nature.
A man will not keep his heart open when it is attacked and his resilience to keep it open is not like women. A woman can emote and be emotional without meaning because it feels good and this is what they need to do. Women cycle their emotions and their minds detach and then come back as they drift in their creative juices. Man, you do not know of this principle for if you’re caught off guard in your tempo you shut down, looking back to the catastrophe of what happened to you in the moment of a woman’s passion that was not in sync with what you thought, nor will it ever be. READ MORE
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“GOD IS; I AM; WE ARE”
“BE GOOD, BE LEGAL, TELL TRUTH”
Love & Light ~Apollo
Relationships have become more challenging during this Time of Transition and bifurcation. As the Divine Force is descending and stirring up everything out of the shadows, many people yearn for more authentic relationships beyond superficial personality match-up based on conditioned desires and social/cultural programming.
We’ve seen four major areas and issues in the relationship space, and with hundreds of people we’ve worked with over the past three years :
1. For people who are already in a relationship , one partner seems to “wake up” and is open to entering into deeper inner work, seeking truth, and following the inner call, but the other partner is reluctant to do so. Interestingly, we have seen an 80% women to 20% men ratio, with women being way more open to sincerely engaging in the inner work as opposed to men. If both partners are not growth-oriented, the relationship becomes stale, many things get ignored, pushed inner the rug, and it hinders both partners’ personal and spiritual growth.
In this instance, one partner often times “waits” for the other person to change, make him/her change, or starts to blame the partner [without taking responsibility for their own part]. Both approaches usually just prolong the inevitable. Couples can also be together for decades, but it is a co-dependent “functional” relationship where many things are unsaid, shoved into the shadow, communication breakdown, and true love departed a long time ago already. In other words, the length of relationships does not always equal quality and depth.
“Many continue to be seduced by the hope that their partner will change for the better, getting so used to being relationally undernourished that when a few crumbs of a desired outcome show up (often just after a serious fuss has been made about needing a closer relationship), those crumbs get framed as a feast, a reason to hang in there, to keep waiting and waiting and waiting… And while we’re waiting thus, we are doing little more than postponing our life, impaling ourselves on our hope (our nostalgia for the future), as if this is all we deserve.”
– Robert Augustus Masters
2. People get addicted to the romantic phase and sexual attraction, mistaking the early relationship phase for true love [positive shadow projections] and when this phase is over, they blame the partner for all kinds of things [negative shadow projections] and terminate the relationship to look for the next “fix” in the futile attempt to look for the “perfect partner” who will fulfill all their needs [mistaking unfulfilled childhood needs for mature adult needs]. They are the avoidant types and run away the moment issues arise and not seeing it as an opportunity for growth and much-needed inner work. There is also only ONE relationship that can fulfill you on all levels, and it needs to come before any other relationship, and that is your relationship to God/the Divine.
“The recurrent fantasy of, or search for, the “perfect partner” is a strong signal from our psyche that we have work to do on ourselves. For a healthy adult, there is no such thing as a perfect partner except temporarily or momentarily. No one source of happiness exists, nor can one partner make life perfect The fact that this happens in fairy tales says it all. A relationship cannot be expected to fulfill all our needs; it only shows them to us and makes a modest contribution to their fulfillment.
– David Richo
3. Because of the [collective] need for more authentic and deeper relationships, people look for their “twin flame,” Queen, King, or Divine Masculine/Feminine counterpart, all concepts which have become very distorted in today’s New Age/pop-spiritual teachings or people fall for the superficial polarity personality role play [lacking psychological and spiritual depth] that seems very hyped these days. For example. The popular Twin flame concept is a gross distortion of the original esoteric concept of the “polar couple,” which the occult hostile forces have hijacked and used to manipulate relationships for their own “loosh” gain.
4. More and more people are single and have become so disillusioned or disappointed in their attempts to [attract] find a partner that they have become hardened and tell themselves that they are “meant to be alone” to that there is “no one out there for them.” Both beliefs are usually unconscious self-defeating trauma responses. Or they have impossible “standards” [positive projections] [based on points 2 and 3] without embodying those qualities themselves or making any effort to learn more about relationship psychology and their own psychology, trauma, coping mechanisms, shadow, etc. They can also be way too hard on themselves and hence look for an “idealized version” and unconsciously push away love when it comes around [due to childhood trauma.]
Laura and I will address all four points and way more in our upcoming 3hr Masterclass, “EVOLUTIONARY RELATIONSHIPS – How To Use Relationships As A Path Of Awakening” on October 6th, 12pm – 3pm PST
This class is for EVERYONE: so whether you are single, dating, or in a long-term relationship or marriage, it will have something for you.
Everyone who has registered has a spot guaranteed and will also receive the 3hr recording of the masterclass, even if you can’t attend it live.
FOR MORE INFO AND TO REGISTER, GO HERE: https://www.evolutionaryrelationshipsnow.com
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